I have been involved with a man since April of this past year. Our relationship is good. But I found out some information that is very disheartening. He married right around the same time he met me and is currently expecting a child.

Before becoming aware of all of this, he proposed to me and developed a very close relationship with my two children. He is currently in the process of trying to file for legal separation and is trying to proceed with a divorce, but the process is slow. In the meantime, his soon-to-be ex wife is threatening to abort their child and is refusing to move out of the residence they share together.

I know I didn't come in to this relationship with him knowing all this. But I feel bad for trying to salvage our relationship. I also feel bad for....well, I just feel bad for everything going on. I don't want to terminate our relationship. I guess I'm trying to figure out....should I stay or should I go?